When i start having dreaming about kicking a friend in the face over a board game and wake up still angry i realize two things 1 therapy sessions need to be added to my current ones and 2 im pretty freaking angry.
Currently im angry, ok well im always kind of angry im blaming it on being a scorpio, but at the moment im sick of people saying sorry when they dont mean it. Well im kind of sick of people in general so here is why Today.
1.) Your Not Sorry - I personally hate to apologize its like vinegar on my tongue but if im wrong i just do it. Its the adult things to do. But im really sick of people that use it while doing something messed up. Everyone has people in their lives that do or have at one time done something to hurt you, and although they dont like how it makes you feel they still continue to hurt you. In my head, they think that whatever they are doing to hurt you is so important that its worth your pain. So now that you have assessed my pain and took steps to make sure it continues, dont apologize because you dont really mean it.
2.) Playing in Traffic - Dont call to tell me your going to play in traffic and get mad when i dont approve. Im your friends its my job to yell at you from the road to get out of the way and perhaps if need be pull you. Your not allowed to get mad at me for telling you there is a car coming, true if i tell you over and over again and curse at you horrible names, fine get a little mad, but dont expect me to be that friend where your sitting in a burning room and im handing you gasoline...not me!
3.) Take Take Take Take - Why does it seem like people always want what they wont give. There are a number of people in my life that expect me to be their ride or die friend or the hide the body friend but only plan to be my Never Answer the Phone friend. You cant give your all to the takers because its a waste of energy and you will be left with nothing. The best takers will try to make you feel guilty for it.
4.) Talkers - I am not a fan of those people that swear there will be every where and do everything but last minute tap out. Just tell someone you dont know if you can come. Everyone knows a person that tells you they are coming to an event and you never really count them because you know they probably wont show up. When they call to say they arent coming no one is shocked. Wanting to come and actually being able to are two different things. Everyone makes time for the things they want to do and its obvious what is important to these types of people.
Okay rant over, these are the types of people i need to deal with better because i am tried of dissapointment and need to take steps to make sure its less in my life if i can help it.
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