10 Reasons Dirty 30 Gives Good Brain

Its about 4 days before the end of the year, and 3 months since my last blog confession, so i felt it was time for some reflection.  Anyone that knows me will tell you that im constantly thinking, there is always a billion things happening in my head, i can blame waitressing and working as a legal secretary for adding to my issues.  So here we go... this is how the 30 year old me thinks of certain things at the end of 2012.  Good bye 20's it was inappropriately fun, crazy, stupid and most of all important.

Lessons:

1.  Bad parents are creating evil children.  I would assume that the closer in age to your child the more likely you are to treat them like a friend.  This needs to be stopped.  There are way to many children in grown folks business.  Children being in grown folks business make them think they are grown.  I have never laid my hands on my nieces nor have i given then any cause to really fear me.  However, I have never had an issue with them disrespecting me or thinking that they can. If they do hands, feet, heels will be laid!! Kids no longer fear adults, when did this happen!  Mostly i see parents either dont care what their kids are doing or doing way to much.  Im sure every one has someone in their life where they think omg they procreated, that pretty much sums of the state of our children.  In short, if your not ready to have a child, correction.. to be a parent that involves you raising your kids, not your mom, the school, their other parent.. then wear a condom, take birth control... find out where the fuck babies come from because these children are society's future and everyone else is left holding the bag.

2. People Need to Sit You in a Box:  I am happily mixed and i truly am not sure how offensive it is that people like to pick apart which of my personality is black or white.  According to the people around me Black Stacie traits - aggressive, yells at kids, a good dancer, thickness. White Stacie traits - voice, good hair, star trek love, craziness.  I really not sure what this proves, except that they think that these things cant be attributed to how i grew up but the state of the hue in my skin,,, or lack there of.  Its strange its almost like a reminder of what i am or what im not.  Im just glad im happy with my HALFRICAN-ness or all these thing would be kind of hard to deal with... like my childhood lol o well... you can read more of this in my book cant give away all the good stuff here

3. Friendship is an action: Im losing friends not really losing more like they are falling and im not picking them up.  Its very strange to me that some of my closest friends are the ones i dont see that often.  It just comes down to who puts in the time.  Its one thing to say you care and love me and will do anything for me, and it is quite another to act like you care, love and will do anything.  My 30th bday was an eye opener for me.  There was so many things people were going to do but in the end those that stepped up were obvious.  If you have better choices go to them.  This year is def about quality... fuck quantity.

4. Who the fuck cares:  The older i get the less everything matters.  Why waste energy on drama or fights or trying to educate the stupid.  There are plenty of things im not happy about but talking about them would waste my time.  So i let it go and move on, there are way more important things going on... like im saving for South Africa to play with tiger cubs so who the fuck cares... tiger cubs... trumps your drama, horrible friendship and straight disrespect of my feelings.

5. Men can be: My current issue with men... having your kids name tattooed on you when you barely see them and dont pay child support makes you an asshole

6. Alone and Happy is Nice:  I am not interested in having a third shift.. this is regarding a book i read in college, where now women and men both work hard come home and the woman is still the main caretaker of the kids and the home, yeah yeah your my man now go change the babie's diaper and gets to the dishes, im folding clothes over here.  I will never be that women, women are taught to somehow feel bad for working and taking care of themselves and so obsessed with being the right wife.  Well i need the right husband and if he cooks cleans and wants to stay home that would be perfect thx!

7. Stuck with Fam and like it?:  Im actually very lucky to have mine, in all of the Jerry Springerness there is a love and devotion that people with less crazy parents dont have, so ill keep mine.. no matter what.. it made me who i am, the good the bad and the dysfunctional.

8. Bitches be like:  Facts of life... Independent Women - have sex when, if , with whom they want because sex is fun and makes us less irritable.  Hoes- hand out sex like gum       Burlesque Dances - Strippers with Acting Degrees and less easy on the eyes  Strippers- Burlesques dancers with better bodies and technique  Prostitutes-Strippers with the taste of dick in their mouth... im just saying

9. Man up :  If you wanted to change something you would, could, will, can... those that wont complain 

10. Vegan is to Christian?  So i think i can compare being a Vegan to being Christian, well kind of.  We are both doing something for a higher purpose, are picked on by others that we believe are completely wrong, and often times judge in our heads lol  Okay it kind of a stretch but o well. 

That's that.. angry Scorp out for the moment